How to Accept Your Own and Be Your Self!
Have you heard or read anyone refer to being your ‘authentic self’, becoming your ‘best self’ or you ‘divine self’. These statements embody a common theme running through the spiritual, self-improvement and holistic healing communities in recent years.
The idea of a “personal best” representative of who we are or simply who we really are is an ancient idea that has cycled back into the psyche of the current generation of ‘seekers’ after that certain something that is missing.
We become seekers because of a strong sense of emptiness or incompleteness that longs for ‘full-fill-ment.
We seek outside of the mass consciousness information networks, only to feast until stuffed at the information overload banquets of pseudo wisdom host.
The temporary satiation they provide leave us more aware of our hunger and inability to provide nourishment for ourselves and family.
The solo seeker after the “truth” thus becomes a lone voice crying in a wilderness of untamed desires, uncultivated spiritual resources and uncivilized kinsmen. Lost from home with neither map or compass, we wander blindly through life.
Never recognizing that which we seek is all around us, all the time.
Yet, there is light at the end of tunnel vision. There is an answer to the cry for a guide. But it can not be heard above the constant din of psychic infomercials. Above the looping break beat which distracts us from healing music of the inner spheres.
The guidance sought, sounds at the level of a song whispered. It is not a message to the crowd, nor a message to all seekers. It is private and confidential. Delivered directly, with no intermediary.
From God’s lips, to your ears.
The message unlocks your heart. Wherein lies the compass that will lead the way to that which you seek.
Let me share a few simple assignments to help seekers to lower the volume within:
Not to long ago, A wise man advised me to- “Accept your Own and Be your self.”
The common understanding held by most who are familiar with the above phrase, is usually limited to accepting your kith and kin. To embrace your culture, your people and your common concerns as your own. This is true, but limits us to only addressing the surface, outer world dimension of this wisdom.
To accept your own is also a guidance to accept that which you have created, accept your responsibilities. It is in essence a directive to claim all of who your are- the good, the bad and the ugly.
Now I know some of you reading this have no bad, negative, error, unresolved issues, lacking, weakness, addictions or demons. You folks can stop reading now. The rest of what I have to say will just be a waste of your time.
We are all willing to accept and claim or best parts, but most of us are in denial about our worst part.
We hide it. Cover it with makeup. And nickname it, so that others (and especially we ourselves) don’t recognize it for what it really is. The problem with this approach is that by denying our demons their due, they become stronger and increase their power over us.
Our errors influence are thoughts and behavior from behind the scenes, because we have not brought them out into the light of day (conscience).
It is the light of the Sun that carries the power to kill the demons that depend on our blood (food) and the darkness (shelter) for life.
Here is a brief history of the word own- (adj) O.E. agen “one’s own,” lit. “possessed by,” from P.Gmc. *aigana- “possessed, owned” (cf. O.S. egan, O. Fris. egin, O.N. eiginn, Du. Eigen, Ger. eigen “own”), from pp. of PIE *aik- “to be mater of, possess,” soruce of O. E. agan “to have” (see owe).
The idea of possession is ancient. To the uninitiated it evokes images of ghost and demons from below the ground.
When in fact, the ghost and demons are unresolved, splintered, orphans of the psyche. Abandoned at birth, raised in the darkness, with no love, forgiveness or guidance.
Hell bent on making the life of anyone who symbolized their parents miserable. Sound familiar.
The only way to slay your demons, is to bring them into the light. Take responsibility for your errors. “To err is human, to forgive is divine.” Admit your mistakes. Make amends with those you have hurt, forgive your self and exorcise your demons in one day.
The key is to forgive, but do not forget. Forgetting leads to repeating your errors. Forgetting is equivalent to losing the knowledge of yourself. And we know where that leads.
By exorcising these demons, you put and end to their shouting for attention. Now you can begin to listen for the soothing voice of your lord.
Next post- Accept you own and be yourself Pt. 2
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