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Archive for the ‘human potential’ Category

The Tai Chi of Time Management

Tuesday, February 1st, 2011

Tons of ink in the literature of the Personal Development, Self Growth genre is dedicated to the problem, analysis and solution for time management.

From prioritizing and scheduling to accountability measures, countless publications have weighed in on the fruit that awaits all who sow the time management seed.

I really don’t think time can be managed. Not unless we have the power to stop the heavenly bodies from moving in their orbits and the seasons from changing.

Time management as a concept is in itself- stress inducing. It makes the clock the focus of our attention and the measure of our productivity. Placing a psychological wedge between us and our personal power.

A more helpful approach to getting the most out of our day and the time available to us, is to adapt systems to manage our energy and focus.

These are resources we have greater control over. We are able to manage our intensity of effort and our attention to task.

We can still use the clock as a tool to assist us in achieving our desired ends, without being at the mercy of it’s Tick-Tock-Tic.

The emphasis on focus and energy also serves to unveil the higher reality of self improvement activities.

The activities and concepts presently covered by the personal development or self improvement umbrella, anciently could be found in the literature and schools of spiritual discipline. The training and management of energy and consciousness are directly related to the body, spirit and soul training of the mystics, shaman and saints of old.

This re-framing of so-called time management work, serves to place us in the psycho-lineage of the ancient self improvement masters. Thus opening the way to tremendous resources in the arts and science of human potential.

You shall eat of any tree in the garden, except . . . .

It is known by all those initiated in the esoteric traditions that the oft mentioned straight path of the scriptures, the path of the rightly guided, is the path of focused attention.

Developing the ability to focus on the task at hand, for a significant length of time, is in a seed stage in children – about 5 minutes, and increases as we mature. By adulthood, most of us have a sustained attentions span of about 20 minutes.

It is very difficult to maintain focus on the straight path, while being bombarded with distracting stimuli. In our present high tech communications environment this could be a problem for many.

We are never out of reach of those petitioning for our attention.

From print media, television, radio and email to web browsing, cell phones, pda’s and iPod’s. And this does not include actual close encounters of the first kind: co-workers, clients, suppliers, friends, family, children, spouse. Need I go on?

How do we guard against being lured into eating the forbidden fruit of distraction, that if unchecked, can reduce us to the level of mere pawns in the game of life?  The suggestions below are a good place to start.

5 Tips To Cultivate Your Power of Attention

1. Learn basic meditation technique and practice everyday.

Work your way up to a minimum of 20 minutes of uninterrupted practice.

2. Keep a notepad near you when working on a task.

Whenever you get distracted, write down what your distraction was; ie. relationship, finances, career, health, etc.  Set aside time to address this issue. Resolve it or begin the process of resolving it, to the best of your ability.

3. Learn an internal movement or internal martial art.

The internal arts place a great emphasis on being in the moment (attentive) while engaged in activity. Find a class or private trainer in Tai Chi, Ba Gua, Xing Yi, Chi Kung, Yoga, Yara and certain dance forms.

These arts are both mindful and strenuous without being brutal on the body. Get your exercise in while developing your attention. Two birds, one stone!

4. Learn to acknowledge when you have lost your focus and bring your self back.

The mind can be very much like a wild animal that needs to be tamed. Allow it time to roam free, explore and graze. But when it’s time to work. You take the reigns and direct it’s motion.

5. Resolve outstanding emotional issues promptly.

Emotional energy is a Goliath that thought energy can not meet head on. If you deny emotional blockages their due, they will most certainly manifest in some other form (disease, depression, distraction, fatigue, loss of creativity or mental capacity).

Address the elephant in the room before she/he wrecks the furniture or the entire house.  Practice emotional Akido.

In my next post, I will follow up on this topic and address Energy management.

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How to Accept Your Own and Be Your Self! Part Deuce

Tuesday, November 16th, 2010

To accept your own is also a guidance to accept that which you have created, accept your responsibilities. It is in essence a directive to claim all of who your are- the good, the bad and the ugly.”

The above is the essence of my previous post. Claiming and taking ownership of the results of our actions is a crucial step in being Oneself.

Your Oneself is already perfect. Your Oneself is just and true and there is no unrighteousness in your Oneself. But there is a false self that we have learned from birth. This false self is “who we think we are.” The I.

What’s in a name?

Even when we take on the label of being conscious, righteous, saved, god, muslim, christian, hebrew, buddist, khemetic, moor, spiritual, etc., if the false self has not been subordinated, we are simply changing mask.

As it is in heaven, so shall it be on earth.

Our inability to unite around one common cause is due to our inability to unite and integrate the many selves within. Our outer condition is but a reflection of our inner conditioning. We are inwardly divided and expect to be outwardly united.

We are focused on changing the world and have devoted little effort to the most effective and greatest of changes, the movement from i self – to own self – to Oneself.

The death of the ego, is the life of the group.

self- O.E. self, seolf, sylf “one’s own person, same,” from P.Gmc.*selbaz (cf. O.N. sjalfr, O.Fris. self, Du. Zelf, O.H.G. selb, Ger. Selbst, Goth. silba), P.Gmc. *selbaz, from PIE *sel-bho-, from base *s(w)e-”separate, apart”

The i self is a consciousness of separateness. It specializes in perceiving division. The i self is blinded by the light of the common cause behind the separate effects. The unity behind the multiplicity.

The i self thinks that it is the judge of good and evil. This tendency results in the rejection of other parts of self that don’t meet it’s learned, fear based criteria of right/wrong. It in essence ignores the the experiences, thoughts, memories, ideas and possibilities that don’t agree with it’s present model of reality.


In it’s ignorance, the i self confuses the map with the territory and can only lead you in the wrong direction.  For in the real world, the territory is always changing.

The lessons are a blessing

The lessons that lead to uniting the diverse parts into a unified whole are locked within the rejected stones of past errors. The elitist consciousness of the i self will not grow until it embraces the entire “Community of Self.” There is a lesson on the lips of the preacher and the pimp, the nurse and the witch, the trauma, the victory, the dream and the snitch.

Here are further exorcises to locate and reintegrate the fractured and rejected inner teachers of your soul.

  1. Begin to keep a journal of your dreams. The M.I.A. members of your inner army often make their appearance here, when the I self is incapable of shock blocking.
  2. Take note of comments, situations, people that make you uncomfortable and especially those that evoke an outburst of anger, fear, confusion, depression or any extreme emotion.
  3. What, who, when, where do you forget? What are the things that seem to always “slip your mind”? Start taking note of the Lost members of your inner tribe. Allow them to find their proper place in your psychic flock.

There are jewels in the above exorcises. Use them to reclaim your abandoned offspring. The family that stays together, rises together.

Rise and Shine.