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Posts Tagged ‘distraction’

The Tai Chi of Time Management

Tuesday, February 1st, 2011

Tons of ink in the literature of the Personal Development, Self Growth genre is dedicated to the problem, analysis and solution for time management.

From prioritizing and scheduling to accountability measures, countless publications have weighed in on the fruit that awaits all who sow the time management seed.

I really don’t think time can be managed. Not unless we have the power to stop the heavenly bodies from moving in their orbits and the seasons from changing.

Time management as a concept is in itself- stress inducing. It makes the clock the focus of our attention and the measure of our productivity. Placing a psychological wedge between us and our personal power.

A more helpful approach to getting the most out of our day and the time available to us, is to adapt systems to manage our energy and focus.

These are resources we have greater control over. We are able to manage our intensity of effort and our attention to task.

We can still use the clock as a tool to assist us in achieving our desired ends, without being at the mercy of it’s Tick-Tock-Tic.

The emphasis on focus and energy also serves to unveil the higher reality of self improvement activities.

The activities and concepts presently covered by the personal development or self improvement umbrella, anciently could be found in the literature and schools of spiritual discipline. The training and management of energy and consciousness are directly related to the body, spirit and soul training of the mystics, shaman and saints of old.

This re-framing of so-called time management work, serves to place us in the psycho-lineage of the ancient self improvement masters. Thus opening the way to tremendous resources in the arts and science of human potential.

You shall eat of any tree in the garden, except . . . .

It is known by all those initiated in the esoteric traditions that the oft mentioned straight path of the scriptures, the path of the rightly guided, is the path of focused attention.

Developing the ability to focus on the task at hand, for a significant length of time, is in a seed stage in children – about 5 minutes, and increases as we mature. By adulthood, most of us have a sustained attentions span of about 20 minutes.

It is very difficult to maintain focus on the straight path, while being bombarded with distracting stimuli. In our present high tech communications environment this could be a problem for many.

We are never out of reach of those petitioning for our attention.

From print media, television, radio and email to web browsing, cell phones, pda’s and iPod’s. And this does not include actual close encounters of the first kind: co-workers, clients, suppliers, friends, family, children, spouse. Need I go on?

How do we guard against being lured into eating the forbidden fruit of distraction, that if unchecked, can reduce us to the level of mere pawns in the game of life?  The suggestions below are a good place to start.

5 Tips To Cultivate Your Power of Attention

1. Learn basic meditation technique and practice everyday.

Work your way up to a minimum of 20 minutes of uninterrupted practice.

2. Keep a notepad near you when working on a task.

Whenever you get distracted, write down what your distraction was; ie. relationship, finances, career, health, etc.  Set aside time to address this issue. Resolve it or begin the process of resolving it, to the best of your ability.

3. Learn an internal movement or internal martial art.

The internal arts place a great emphasis on being in the moment (attentive) while engaged in activity. Find a class or private trainer in Tai Chi, Ba Gua, Xing Yi, Chi Kung, Yoga, Yara and certain dance forms.

These arts are both mindful and strenuous without being brutal on the body. Get your exercise in while developing your attention. Two birds, one stone!

4. Learn to acknowledge when you have lost your focus and bring your self back.

The mind can be very much like a wild animal that needs to be tamed. Allow it time to roam free, explore and graze. But when it’s time to work. You take the reigns and direct it’s motion.

5. Resolve outstanding emotional issues promptly.

Emotional energy is a Goliath that thought energy can not meet head on. If you deny emotional blockages their due, they will most certainly manifest in some other form (disease, depression, distraction, fatigue, loss of creativity or mental capacity).

Address the elephant in the room before she/he wrecks the furniture or the entire house.  Practice emotional Akido.

In my next post, I will follow up on this topic and address Energy management.

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How to Accept Your Own and Be Your Self!

Tuesday, November 2nd, 2010

Have you heard or read anyone refer to being your ‘authentic self’, becoming your ‘best self’ or you ‘divine self’. These statements embody a common theme running through the spiritual, self-improvement and holistic healing communities in recent years.

The idea of a “personal best” representative of who we are or simply who we really are is an ancient idea that has cycled back into the psyche of the current generation of ‘seekers’ after that certain something that is missing.

We become seekers because of a strong sense of emptiness or incompleteness that longs for ‘full-fill-ment.

We seek outside of the mass consciousness information networks, only to feast until stuffed at the information overload banquets of pseudo wisdom host.

The temporary satiation they provide leave us more aware of our hunger and inability to provide nourishment for ourselves and family.

The solo seeker after the “truth” thus becomes a lone voice crying in a wilderness of untamed desires, uncultivated spiritual resources and uncivilized kinsmen. Lost from home with neither map or compass, we wander blindly through life.

Never recognizing that which we seek is all around us, all the time.

Yet, there is light at the end of tunnel vision. There is an answer to the cry for a guide. But it can not be heard above the constant din of psychic infomercials. Above the looping break beat which distracts us from healing music of the inner spheres.

The guidance sought, sounds at the level of a song whispered. It is not a message to the crowd, nor a message to all seekers. It is private and confidential. Delivered directly, with no intermediary.

From God’s lips, to your ears.

The message unlocks your heart. Wherein lies the compass that will lead the way to that which you seek.

Let me share a few simple assignments to help seekers to lower the volume within:

Not to long ago, A wise man advised me to- “Accept your Own and Be your self.”

The common understanding held by most who are familiar with the above phrase, is usually limited to accepting your kith and kin. To embrace your culture, your people and your common concerns as your own.  This is true, but limits us to only addressing the surface, outer world dimension of this wisdom.

To accept your own is also a guidance to accept that which you have created, accept your responsibilities. It is in essence a directive to claim all of who your are- the good, the bad and the ugly.

Now I know some of you reading this have no bad, negative, error, unresolved issues, lacking, weakness, addictions or demons. You folks can stop reading now. The rest of what I have to say will just be a waste of your time.

We are all willing to accept and claim or best parts, but most of us are in denial about our worst part.

We hide it. Cover it with makeup. And nickname it, so that others (and especially we ourselves) don’t recognize it for what it really is. The problem with this approach is that by denying our demons their due, they become stronger and increase their power over us.

Our errors influence are thoughts and behavior from behind the scenes, because we have not brought them out into the light of day (conscience).

It is the light of the Sun that carries the power to kill the demons that depend on our blood (food) and the darkness (shelter) for life.

Here is a brief history of the word own- (adj) O.E. agen “one’s own,” lit. “possessed by,” from P.Gmc. *aigana- “possessed, owned” (cf. O.S. egan, O. Fris. egin, O.N. eiginn, Du. Eigen, Ger. eigen “own”), from pp. of PIE *aik- “to be mater of, possess,” soruce of O. E. agan “to have” (see owe).

The idea of possession is ancient. To the uninitiated it evokes images of ghost and demons from below the ground.

When in fact, the ghost and demons are unresolved, splintered, orphans of the psyche. Abandoned at birth, raised in the darkness, with no love, forgiveness or guidance.

Hell bent on making the life of anyone who symbolized their parents miserable. Sound familiar.

The only way to slay your demons, is to bring them into the light. Take responsibility for your errors. “To err is human, to forgive is divine.” Admit your mistakes. Make amends with those you have hurt, forgive your self and exorcise your demons in one day.

The key is to forgive, but do not forget. Forgetting leads to repeating your errors. Forgetting is equivalent to losing the knowledge of yourself. And we know where that leads.

By exorcising these demons, you put and end to their shouting for attention. Now you can begin to listen for the soothing voice of your lord.

Next post- Accept you own and be yourself Pt. 2

Do it now. Keep doing it.

Saturday, June 26th, 2010

I see it over and over. Folks get the urge to get in shape, change their diet, reduce their stressors.

They start asking questions. Researching programs and coaches to help them get started. Then Wham! Life happens.

Mandatory overtime, a child gets sick, maybe an old friend comes to town and you become host and tour guide.  When the smoke clears, the desire to adopt a healthier lifestyle is a faint memory.

When you get the inspiration to make a change in your life. Seize the time.  Don’t allow yourself to get distracted. Don’t waste precious  time trying to do it the “right way.”  “Just do it.”  You can perfect it as you go along.

The urge to better your health is the opening of your souls’ window. It’s an invitation to dance intimately with your own compassionate, nurturing spirit.

When you turn down this invitation, or worse, accept the invitation, then fail to show.  You hurt your spirit at a depth that requires much time to heal.  It will be a long time before you receive that invitation again.

Each occurrence of this no show behavior reduces your spirits faith in your word. Try standing up your family physician a few times and observe the results.

Recognize your own importance.  Make your health (thrive-ability) a priority for you.  Close the gap between your head and your heart.

The next time you receive an invitation to dance with your inner Shaman.  Kick off your shoes. Put your hair in a bun. Take a deep breath. And just do it!

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